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What was your experience in dating military men? I always hear horror stories about dating military guys and have met a couple awful military guys myself violent, immature, threatened me. I realize that bad men are not specific to the military, it is just one of those professions that can really mold a person. Anyway, I've recently met a very nice guy, and now everyone around me including my parents are warning me and waiting for it all to blow up in my face.

Dating is hard because you don't always know who is a great guy and who isputting up a front. In the realm of military men, try to avoid the ones that get caught up in unit drama. For some people the military is an extension of high school. Those individuals will be drama and aren't worth your time. My brother is in the military ann arbor dating service he's the best person.

He met his wife before dating seremban military, and I think she keeps him grounded and out of too much trouble. I've worked as a civilian for the army, have friends who have served and have dated someone from almost every branch. I live in a very military friendly state. But still I'm no expert and only have my experiences. In all honesty it's just like dating in general you are going to find good and bad guys.

Dating a guy in the army reserves just depends on what you are looking for and their personality. Yes if you find a meat head and date you might have issues but if you find a guy that is trying to serve his country is down to earth knows right from wrong then great. The problem I have found when it comes to men in the military that are real dicks is that they joined the military for all the wrong reasons. The guys that joined for all the wrong reasons are the guys that you want to stay away from.

So my suggestion whenever you date someone in the military, yes be aware they have seen shit or done shit in their life that you probably never will but get to know the person. They are just like anyone else except their job involves the military. My boyfriend is leaving for Basic Training for the Air Force in January, so he's not quite a "military man" yet, but I'll be honest and say that I'm terrified of it. I'm terrified that he will change, things will get weird between us after being apart, etc.

We've planned our life belizean dating and I really want it to work out. I dated a military man and he really set the dating a guy in the army reserves for how a man should treat me and women in general. He was just an all around really caring guy, who did nice things for me and bought me flowers and was willing to talk back to my bitchy bullshit I have my moments.

While it's too bad it didn't work out my fault, not dating a guy in the army reservesI know now how I'm supposed to be treated by a man and will look for someone like him when looking for a husband. I don't think it's fair to generalize. I also have a friend who's married to a military guy who is a complete MORON, but he's a good husband and father.

And I know some military people who are just jerks. One thing that's important, though, is to remember that most likely they will be gone often, for long periods of time, over and over. You have to be ready for that. Also military often comes first before family They will almost always go on a dating a guy in the army reserves rather than stay home. This is from dating a guy in the army reserves own experience as a military kid and girlfriend. My boyfriend is in the military, and he's not a bad person.

He loves his job, and he aspires to be the best he can be for his soldiers. He wants to be a good officer for them. It makes dating a guy in the army reserves proud to watch him excel in something that he loves. But like someone else said, there are bad apples in every bunch. Not schwinn le tour dating people in the military are bad.

Their being in the military has nothing to do with them being assholes Give your man a chance. If he starts displaying scary behavior or other toxic stuff, yeah, get the hell away from dating a guy in the army reserves. But don't count him out on just the biases of others. He might be a great person! I was in a military relationship for 2. It created a very difficult time in my life, but I am to this day so so so so grateful that I did not marry that man, as much as I loved him.

I dated him for hook up redding ca year before he enlisted, and then for almost two years afterwards. I saw the way the military changed him.

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