Hedging Your Bets

Just dating him in the meantime? Don’t!

Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. Why did hesging feel like settling for a married guy?

And yes, of course he is hedging. I just don't get where you're coming from Sounds like a 7 course meal. He's not a great guy he's a cheater,liar,coward,player,did I say "CHEAT". How about that silly thing called a marriage license. He should have his fishing license revoked! I have a wonderful marriage and a man I care about very much we happen to have an open marriage Something lots of people don't understand.

Guess I should have known better than to ask opinions from close minded people like yourself, but my fault I thought I wouldn't be hung before the jury came back Just my opinion and I am more than open minded Yes, this man has jedging faults and those who have posted here datung bore that out I said that same thing to him the last time I say him and he agreed that this wasn't the way to go kids involved, but otherwise not sure what his rationale is and many other people get a divorce that have kids and a bad marriage And if my profile is so bad because I'm being honest, what about all those married men out there who are looking for the same thing should they too be strung up???

Guess we have to agree to disagree on this, but thanks anyway Along with FUBAR and SNAFU. And all three of them apply to datihg OP I think I saw this episode of Jerry. Perhaps your hubby and his wife will find solace in each other. We'll see how "open" the marriage is then. Sorry,but I'm at the point of declaring this a troll post.

Datinv you should post your query to a "Lifestyles"group the biggest "open marriage"organization in the U. At least there,you'll find like minded individuals that not only understand your situation,but are in better understanding to offer "acceptable"advice. Time to move on-this guy is definitely looking for as many rolls in the sack that the sex bakery can dish out! The unhappy marriage thing is one of the oldest excuses in the book. The case of "the guilts" was most likely his wife getting suspicious and he had to cool it off with you.

Whateverjust wake up-from what youve said youve been lead up the garden path here and not given a thought to his wife. Who cares if he is hedging his bets,is this REALLY what you think you are worth? Get rid, have a bit of respect for yourself because you are being played. Coming back with 'oh, you hedging your bets dating understand me, you're all so close minded Is this other marriage you're mucking around in an 'open marriage' too?

My gut says no. Thus, you are still selfish and disgusting. If you wanted to skank around town, why'd you bother getting married? Let me think of what one such as yourself would say, maybe I'm having trouble thinking of what hedging your bets dating excuses you might think up because I'm not a festering and disgusting boil on the butt of society. Take ownership of the damage you are doing to others and start thinking you selfish cow.

And, grow the hell up. He is not hedging, he is using you all, and you are all letting him do it. A month from now you'll al be whining, and wondering how he could be hedging your bets dating cruel, and disrespectful I'm so datinng for this award. I'd like to thank the Academy, PoF, all you posters, weirdos and messed up people like the OP here who post crazy things to make fun sating, I'd like to thank my family, and my friends, my ex husband for divorcing me and leading me to be here on PoF And for the record, he is a really great guy and a wonderful catch for any woman if only he were single.

If he cheats on her he will cheat on you. MY OH MY Joined: The OP IS MARRIED. This man is married. They are both eating cake and pie a'la mode. Please put them in a boat and set it off to sea. Sorry, but I really have problems when people remain married and screw around, and it doesn't have to involve sex. Erm no end this now while you still have your sanity What a loser he is, good catch my ass! It isnt unnatural and there are those, such as yourself, that are willing to dabble with married people.

Women gets no better or worse. More than likely he is NOT leaving his wife. More than likely herging is on POF for sex. Hedging your bets dating been approached by more than a handful of married women on here. There are advantages and disadvantages to yiur married people. They dont expect too much. They are not always available and you dont have to worry about them bogarting your time, some are wonderful people and genuine with sentiment about those they date, some are pathological liars.

Just be careful when you enter into a dating relation. It can hurt just like any other dating relationship. How long will it be before he gets tired of YOU when you're supposedly the "lead fiddle" You are cheating on your husband with a "really great guy" who is cheating on his wife and you are concerned that he is cheating on you? You're either a troll, a insert ehdging meaning hedging your bets dating of of low moral character hereor seriously deluded.

On the off chance you are just deluded Of course he's hedging, as are you. Though I expect your respective spouses would have a different term for it For Pete's sake, see a shrink, grow a backbone, and stop screwing up other peoples lives. If you hedging your bets dating along you know what you're getting into but you're a big girl. I'm sure their married lives were so perfect they can tell everyone else how to live their lives. It amazes me that when you are up front on what you're doing and everyone gets to chose to not be involved with you, what would they care?

Wait I forgot that we're becoming a country that will lay out what is good for you to eat, what to drive, what to live like and who to sleep with for the good of the mob. Page 4 of 5. Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets Posted: You think a guy cheating on his wife and hedging his bets would be a wonderful catch?

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